My Mum gets really anxious and rings me repeatedly. Up to 50 times a day. I answer 3 or 4 times then unplug the phone because my reassurance does not help and I find myself getting frazzled. Mum has pain and the GP has prescribed pain relief but carers only visit once a day and meds are locked in a safe. I live over 150 miles away and am thinking does she need respite care? Daughter feeling overwhelmed!