My 81 year old father is in a not so good care home(many complaints upheld, poorly run and understaffed) and needs to be moved for his own well being. Social services, GP and my family have agreed he can move to be near me - (I have found a great home, well staffed and 100% confident they can manage situation)so he can have regular visits from me and my family but it is 300 miles from what he knows(knew?). He rarely gets visits where he is - I get there every 3 weeks or so and is lonely and unhappy in the home. Dr says he not depressed but that a chmnage of environment may help him. Has anyone got any experience of moving someone without their 100% knowledge of what is going on. Its for the best of reasons but I cannot help feeling a bit deceitful.