Hi
@Saddaughter
Im sorry to hear about your mum. Does your mum need specific nursing care, or is it just that the care home she is in now cannot meet her needs?
Care homes are not all the same, they can all set boundaries on what they will and will not accept. Some will not accept people who wander and go into other peoples rooms, some will not accept mobility problems and do not have hoists, some will not accept any sort of aggression and problems with personal care or incontinence.
Other care homes (usually the EMI care homes) will accept all of these. The one mum was in accepted all of this and also would care through End of Life, so mum was able to stay there right up to the end and passed away in her care home.
If your mum does not require specific nursing care, then there is almost certainly another care home that could meet her needs. The care homes that SS are looking at will want to assess your mum before accepting her. If her needs are too great for them they will not accept her. SS cannot insist that a care home takes her if the care home does not feel able to meet her needs. If she requires nursing care then none of them will accept her and SS will have to start looking at nursing homes.