I posted some comments a couple of months ago about having to move my mum into a care home.She had lived in her home almost 60 years and I was feeling terrible about her having to move.
However I am pleased to say she is settling really well after 6 weeks and the care home have been wonderful. She has been out with some of the other residents, gets up every morning and takes part in the activities, eats well and generally seems happy. When she mentions her old home i just try to distract her. She has very poor short term memory but her quality of life is good and she has lovely experiences in the moment, so I don't worry that she can't remeber them.
My advice to anyone going through the same situation is not to feel guilty if you have no choice but place a realtive into care. However it is worth visiting many homes and talking to people who have first hand experience before choosing the right place. Thank you for the helpful comments.
However I am pleased to say she is settling really well after 6 weeks and the care home have been wonderful. She has been out with some of the other residents, gets up every morning and takes part in the activities, eats well and generally seems happy. When she mentions her old home i just try to distract her. She has very poor short term memory but her quality of life is good and she has lovely experiences in the moment, so I don't worry that she can't remeber them.
My advice to anyone going through the same situation is not to feel guilty if you have no choice but place a realtive into care. However it is worth visiting many homes and talking to people who have first hand experience before choosing the right place. Thank you for the helpful comments.