Hello everyone
I posted at the weekend about how concerned I was about SS finding a good home for mum and my worries around this. I’m really pleased to say that on Monday , SS had a meeting and confirmed that mum couldn’t be discharged home and would need residential care. They offered her a bed in a home about 10 miles away which worried me at first. But on visiting it on Tuesday, I can only say it was really lovely. She will be assessed tomorrow and hopefully all should be sorted quickly.
Work have been great and told me to take the time I need to sort everything. Today I gave notice on the house she has lived in since I was 3 and started the painful process of clearing it. Don’t think I’ve cried in a very long time so much as I have over the last few days.
I would really appreciate advice on settling mum in her new home. I know I can personalize her room etc but am more worried about her becoming unhappy and unsettled. She is now quite happy in her little side room at the hospital and is really doing well. She thinks its home. I hate to think she will be unsettled and unhappy again when she’s moved. I know this is unavoidable, and probably I need to get a grip on my own anxieties and stress levels! But just not sure whether I should go more often or less often or what!! Also I won’t be able to go as often as she’s further away. We’ve always seen each other several times a week, and in the last two years every single day. I know I need a break and she needs company and care which she will get, but I feel heartbroken that this is a shift to a different life for us both. Oops here I go again, tears for the millionth time today! Xxx
I posted at the weekend about how concerned I was about SS finding a good home for mum and my worries around this. I’m really pleased to say that on Monday , SS had a meeting and confirmed that mum couldn’t be discharged home and would need residential care. They offered her a bed in a home about 10 miles away which worried me at first. But on visiting it on Tuesday, I can only say it was really lovely. She will be assessed tomorrow and hopefully all should be sorted quickly.
Work have been great and told me to take the time I need to sort everything. Today I gave notice on the house she has lived in since I was 3 and started the painful process of clearing it. Don’t think I’ve cried in a very long time so much as I have over the last few days.
I would really appreciate advice on settling mum in her new home. I know I can personalize her room etc but am more worried about her becoming unhappy and unsettled. She is now quite happy in her little side room at the hospital and is really doing well. She thinks its home. I hate to think she will be unsettled and unhappy again when she’s moved. I know this is unavoidable, and probably I need to get a grip on my own anxieties and stress levels! But just not sure whether I should go more often or less often or what!! Also I won’t be able to go as often as she’s further away. We’ve always seen each other several times a week, and in the last two years every single day. I know I need a break and she needs company and care which she will get, but I feel heartbroken that this is a shift to a different life for us both. Oops here I go again, tears for the millionth time today! Xxx