- Jan 13, 2020
My mother 79 has been on a dementia ward for 10days then on Saturday moved to a care home as her husband , my stepdad can no longer care for her. I have written other posts about how upsetting I am finding this - and I am really trying to accept how things have turned out. I cant help feeling guilty that she has become so very lonely, distressed and even more confused since all these moves. Even as I write know there is no other option....... I can not seem to stop worrying about her and it is making me feel unwell - I feel it is only me who is really worrying such a lot. Siblings seem more acceptant of it, her husband has his own health issues which he must concentrate on..... the weight of it all feels too much.... I was visiting every day in hospital for hours, now I feel so shattered I am dreading the next visit.