Mother wont use toilet paper, and advice?

Aisling

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Dec 5, 2015
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Hello. I actually used three things to monitor my mother when she was still ambulatory. I used a baby (audio) monitor to listen in on her activity, a motion detector (which used a beam and activated a remote device that sounded as soon as the beam was crossed), and a video/audio monitor (finally found one that would work across a long distance). I'll try to copy and paste into this message links to the devices I used.

I used a Graco digital monitor with two parent units (so that I could leave one in the bedroom and carry one with me as I moved about the house):
https://jet.com/product/detail/d5f4...d=403-543403&gclid=CNXKpZftxcoCFYEfHwodRZgOpw

I used this motion detector, with a remote alarm, though they sell all different kinds:
http://www.amazon.com/Motion-Detector-with-Remote-Alarm/dp/B000SOLFZC

And I used (and still use) a video monitor made by the Summer company. I LOVE this - I can keep track of my mother's every move, if I wish. They don't seem to make my model any longer, but these are similar:
http://www.summerinfant.com/clearsightdigitalcolorvideomonitor

I finally had to stop using the plain audio monitor, because I would lie awake listening in on my mother and wondering what she was doing. If I had it to do again, I'd get the motion detector with the remote alarm and the video/audio monitor and not get the baby monitor. But everyone is different. I know your struggles. Good luck.

You are a star. Thank you.
Aisling
 

Aisling

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Dec 5, 2015
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My mum has Alzheimer's and thinks she needs to go to toilet too many times.

Each time she never uses toilet paper and her left hand and fingers end up covered in dirt.

There is no talking to her what do I do ?

Hi Peter,

Just thinking about you and wondering how you are getting.

Aisling (Ireland)