My dad died of Leukaemia 2 years ago so mum was more or less on her own during lockdown , she was part of our bubble and we saw her daily until Christmas when my household contracted covid. After that happened mum had a fear of coming into contact with us and would talk to us from the garden path. in the last 3 months she has gone downhill fast and we are waiting for a memory test to confirm the diagnosis.
She is currently so distressed , she is adamant that she does not own her house freehold and that she owes someone hundreds of thousands of pounds for the land that her house stands on , she thinks that when anything happens to her these people will take the money owed , from every single family member to repay her debt. This includes nieces , nephews , in-laws , her brothers , my husbands mum , literally everyone. My dad left her in a comfortable position financially but she says no money is hers and she cannot afford any clothes or to put the tv and heating on.
She is also convinced that she has 1. skin cancer 2. pancreatic cancer 3. Heart problems and that by coming into contact with her we can all catch it . She has now started to hallucinate that there are flies in her house and apparently sleeps with a hat on so the bugs don't crawl in her ears.
I have spoken to the doctor but even though we have lasting power of attorney , the doctor says that she is of sound mind and will not connect with us , he offered her tablets to help with her anxiety but of course she refused . We have tried to explain that her worries are found less but she starts to cry and shout and sob and gets very agitated , But we tried to agree with her and tell her we would look into it and sort it out for her and it makes her worse as she then cries that its all true and there is nothing anyone can do and she is like a frightened rabbit,
We do not know where to turn next as her doctor is not offering us any support and goes direct to mum and she cannot remember anything that he says to her when we ask. She is constantly on the phone to family members sobbing and we feel totally helpless. Has anyone been through anything similar with the house and money worries and can you offer any advice on what we can do to stop her being distressed .
She is currently so distressed , she is adamant that she does not own her house freehold and that she owes someone hundreds of thousands of pounds for the land that her house stands on , she thinks that when anything happens to her these people will take the money owed , from every single family member to repay her debt. This includes nieces , nephews , in-laws , her brothers , my husbands mum , literally everyone. My dad left her in a comfortable position financially but she says no money is hers and she cannot afford any clothes or to put the tv and heating on.
She is also convinced that she has 1. skin cancer 2. pancreatic cancer 3. Heart problems and that by coming into contact with her we can all catch it . She has now started to hallucinate that there are flies in her house and apparently sleeps with a hat on so the bugs don't crawl in her ears.
I have spoken to the doctor but even though we have lasting power of attorney , the doctor says that she is of sound mind and will not connect with us , he offered her tablets to help with her anxiety but of course she refused . We have tried to explain that her worries are found less but she starts to cry and shout and sob and gets very agitated , But we tried to agree with her and tell her we would look into it and sort it out for her and it makes her worse as she then cries that its all true and there is nothing anyone can do and she is like a frightened rabbit,
We do not know where to turn next as her doctor is not offering us any support and goes direct to mum and she cannot remember anything that he says to her when we ask. She is constantly on the phone to family members sobbing and we feel totally helpless. Has anyone been through anything similar with the house and money worries and can you offer any advice on what we can do to stop her being distressed .