Hi, just wondering if anyone else has found that their mother refuses to talk to them. the longer it goes in, the more it seems to upset me. It's been months now that she has a dislike for me. The whole family harmony / happiness seems to have gone septic. All my usual happy relationships with brother, aunt etc are no longer easy going as they are desperate not to upset me more and so don't mention the obvious. I'm stuck between such a strong desire to know how Mum is and at the same time wanting to run away. I'm trying to train my brain to think of other things but that just doesn't seem to happen. Seems so strange as we have been so close for all of our lives and never had a cross word. Any ideas would be appreciated.. Would it be very wrong to stop visiting?