My mother in law was diagnosed with Alzheimers two and a half years ago. Over the last year we have seen her deteriorate, despite being on Aricept. My father in law is looking after and providing all her care. The problem we have is that although we only live half an hour away, we have 2 small children and both work so it is difficult to get across to see her more than once a week. Although my father in law is very good at looking after her, he is reluctant to join any local groups, have any care in the house or keep services updated about her condition. We have rung local services and gathered information about what is around in their area, but he is adamant that he does not want her assessed as they may 'take her away'.
My mother in law is becoming aggressive towards her husband and is doubly incontinent now and just seems generally unhappy at home. I strongly feel that her G.P. and the local alzheimers society should be involved and that my mother in law should at least be being regularly monitored.
Her husband is 73, whilst my mother in law is only 64 years old. My husband and I are extremely worried about her, but have been told that unless we feel she is being neglected, there is essentially nothing we can do. Can anyone offer any advice please?? We would desperately like to help more but feel that we are playing a waiting game until my father in law can no longer cope.
Thanks in anticipation x:
My mother in law is becoming aggressive towards her husband and is doubly incontinent now and just seems generally unhappy at home. I strongly feel that her G.P. and the local alzheimers society should be involved and that my mother in law should at least be being regularly monitored.
Her husband is 73, whilst my mother in law is only 64 years old. My husband and I are extremely worried about her, but have been told that unless we feel she is being neglected, there is essentially nothing we can do. Can anyone offer any advice please?? We would desperately like to help more but feel that we are playing a waiting game until my father in law can no longer cope.
Thanks in anticipation x: