My mother in-law is 90 and is in denial that she is old she is do a lot of risky things plus we have noticed she is getting forgetful a lot she talks to her self and hides soiled and wet underwear we have tried to get her to wear incontinent underwear but it comes with her getting very snappy and angry with us she doesn't sleep at night and walks around the house but will fall asleep in the day in her chair she hides used tissue and soiled toilet paper in her draws in her bedroom we are pulling our hair out as she is very secretive if she is sick like when she has a UTI or the runs we find out because she spends lengthy times in the bathroom showering is our next big problem she won't shower at all unless we push her to do this she can't see but is in denial about it and can't hear also in denial about that too does anyone have the same problem