I wasn't paying attention yesterday @Carmar and am pleased to read that your mum didn't stay in hospital! But, a worrying time of course with this lump. I hope it goes OK today with her further visit to the hospital and am sending best wishes. Good that a carer from the home will be going with her as well. Am sorry to read about the extra strain on your back. The hospital staff will of course have no idea of the stresses and strains we go through (unless they themselves have been through something like this of course). You absolutely cannot convey to anyone who has not been through this how horrendous an experience it is, especially on the hospital front. I get a sinking feeling just thinking about that hospital multi storey car park now, never mind even going anywhere near it!