Talking to leader of the local AD group of what help I wanted. I said I really wanted a professional observer to look at Teresa from the context of AD. If any decisions about her care need to take difficult decisons need to be taken then they would help in this process. I donot want crisis management if something goes wrong then help arriving. At present I just coping with a part time carer but we are so close too edge. I yet to meet anyone that seems to understand this. Every one focuses on memory loss. From my observations it is far more drastic than than that I am building up my own lanuage for AD symtons like child like state, gone to a dark place, come back. I am feeling very isolated dealing with this anyone who have any comments would be helpful