Hello, this is my first post.
My Mum is 87 and has had Alzheimer’s since March this year. Her decline has been very fast and now has 3 carers a day, meals on wheels for lunch and attends a day centre twice a week. I have POA and do her shopping and get cash back of £20 for her every Saturday. The money is put in her purse so she can go out with a good friend on a Wednesday and a Friday for tea and cake in town. She now has virtually no short term memory, but can still hold a conversation, is very funny and friendly and despite everything knows her own mind (?), and still likes to do as much as she can in the house.
For the last 2 months, her friend has been informing me that she has no money when they go out, only a few coppers.
She spends nothing at the day centre or meals on wheels as all cost are on DD. She never goes out alone as she is very unstable on her feet now.
I have informed the Care Agency that money is missing and they suggested I write down on the log book that I have given Mum money. I have also left a note for the carers at Mums house to ask them as money is missing, if they find any ‘hidden’ away to let me know. But again this week, the money disappeared by Wednesday. I’ve searched all over the house in case she is hiding it, but cannot find anything. When I asked her she just says she can’t remember if she is hiding it and is baffled as to why she would anyway (she does seem very on the ball sometimes).
I hate suspecting the carers, who seem to get on well with Mum but have no idea what to do now.
Has anyone else had this problem?
My Mum is 87 and has had Alzheimer’s since March this year. Her decline has been very fast and now has 3 carers a day, meals on wheels for lunch and attends a day centre twice a week. I have POA and do her shopping and get cash back of £20 for her every Saturday. The money is put in her purse so she can go out with a good friend on a Wednesday and a Friday for tea and cake in town. She now has virtually no short term memory, but can still hold a conversation, is very funny and friendly and despite everything knows her own mind (?), and still likes to do as much as she can in the house.
For the last 2 months, her friend has been informing me that she has no money when they go out, only a few coppers.
She spends nothing at the day centre or meals on wheels as all cost are on DD. She never goes out alone as she is very unstable on her feet now.
I have informed the Care Agency that money is missing and they suggested I write down on the log book that I have given Mum money. I have also left a note for the carers at Mums house to ask them as money is missing, if they find any ‘hidden’ away to let me know. But again this week, the money disappeared by Wednesday. I’ve searched all over the house in case she is hiding it, but cannot find anything. When I asked her she just says she can’t remember if she is hiding it and is baffled as to why she would anyway (she does seem very on the ball sometimes).
I hate suspecting the carers, who seem to get on well with Mum but have no idea what to do now.
Has anyone else had this problem?