Hello...
My mom is due to go to her new emi unit this thursday..so today we thought we would take her for a visit,show her around etc.
I dont know if it was such a good idea to be honest..as soon as we got her into the place her face went..she looked totally confused and kept frowning as if she was trying to work out where she was..she kept looking at my sister and I..I hope for reassurance.
Some of the other residents asked mom if she would like to join them in having a cuppa...Mom said in a very stern voice..what I havent heard now for a few years..'NO...I WANT TO GO NOW'..so we thanked the people but said mom wasnt too sure yet of the new place..and once she got used to it she would join them..
Also this emi unit has access to stairs going up and down to different levels...I didnt know this when I first went to look around the place..(the emi unit on the 1st floor hadnt opened when I first viewed the place...but the staff assured me that measures would be put into place to safeguard the residents).so mom along with the other emi residents are free to come and go upstairs downstairs whenever they wish..thing is my moms mobility isnt very clever at all..and she cannot manage stairs at all...so now I dont know if I should still let mom go here?
Today they have told us that there is always a member of staff around incase mom wants to up or down the stairs..what if one time there is no staff there when my mom decides to go up or down the stairs? Shes going to fall...I dont feel happy at all now I must say..and I feel today that I made the wrong choice of emi unit...the temp emi unit where mom is now..is all on one level and there are coded doors..and many of them...she would have to try to 'break out' of 3 sets of doors before hitting the outside door...the new emi unit she is straight down the stairs and the front doors are there...
Am I over reacting do you think? I thought I was coming to terms with the situation we have found ourselves in this last month..but today I am right back to when we first started this horrendous journey a month ago... Its also unsettled my sister and my dad too...I really do not know now what to do...she cannot stay at this temp emi unit as it is only like a 'holding place' for people while they find permanent care...
My mom is due to go to her new emi unit this thursday..so today we thought we would take her for a visit,show her around etc.
I dont know if it was such a good idea to be honest..as soon as we got her into the place her face went..she looked totally confused and kept frowning as if she was trying to work out where she was..she kept looking at my sister and I..I hope for reassurance.
Some of the other residents asked mom if she would like to join them in having a cuppa...Mom said in a very stern voice..what I havent heard now for a few years..'NO...I WANT TO GO NOW'..so we thanked the people but said mom wasnt too sure yet of the new place..and once she got used to it she would join them..
Also this emi unit has access to stairs going up and down to different levels...I didnt know this when I first went to look around the place..(the emi unit on the 1st floor hadnt opened when I first viewed the place...but the staff assured me that measures would be put into place to safeguard the residents).so mom along with the other emi residents are free to come and go upstairs downstairs whenever they wish..thing is my moms mobility isnt very clever at all..and she cannot manage stairs at all...so now I dont know if I should still let mom go here?
Today they have told us that there is always a member of staff around incase mom wants to up or down the stairs..what if one time there is no staff there when my mom decides to go up or down the stairs? Shes going to fall...I dont feel happy at all now I must say..and I feel today that I made the wrong choice of emi unit...the temp emi unit where mom is now..is all on one level and there are coded doors..and many of them...she would have to try to 'break out' of 3 sets of doors before hitting the outside door...the new emi unit she is straight down the stairs and the front doors are there...
Am I over reacting do you think? I thought I was coming to terms with the situation we have found ourselves in this last month..but today I am right back to when we first started this horrendous journey a month ago... Its also unsettled my sister and my dad too...I really do not know now what to do...she cannot stay at this temp emi unit as it is only like a 'holding place' for people while they find permanent care...