hi all
im in turmoil I really don't know what to do or which way to turn , my mom was diagnosed last year with vascular dimetia, she has recently had a stroke this yes a big stroke , mom has changed dramatically , she is now swearing at me terrible , wishing me dead , saying everything is my fault , its so upsetting I cannot go round to visit her , she had become very aggressive , threatening her carers and even going to hit them , she says she doesn't want the carers as she does not like the way they are with her , when they call she refuses them to make food for her in microwave , she is a very high diabetic on insulin ,
the Solihull adult social care are well aware of this mom not having food yet they say to me "she has got carers and we cannot force her to eat food"
they say she has full capacity to make her own choices and she knows what choice she is making ,
surely social adult care sevices have to do something , the one senior care social worker said to the carers I am telling the nurses not to feed her or anyone feed her , then she will call the carers for them to go in her home and make food , im devastated she is being treated as an animal ,
I really don't know what to do , I cant go round and visit her when she is so so abusive to me and everyone else , im in limbo here I don't know what to do , I just feel adult Solihull social services cant wait till my mom dies and shes off there hands as they don't do a thing for her . if anyone has any answers for me id appreciate it , im so scared and worried ,
im in turmoil I really don't know what to do or which way to turn , my mom was diagnosed last year with vascular dimetia, she has recently had a stroke this yes a big stroke , mom has changed dramatically , she is now swearing at me terrible , wishing me dead , saying everything is my fault , its so upsetting I cannot go round to visit her , she had become very aggressive , threatening her carers and even going to hit them , she says she doesn't want the carers as she does not like the way they are with her , when they call she refuses them to make food for her in microwave , she is a very high diabetic on insulin ,
the Solihull adult social care are well aware of this mom not having food yet they say to me "she has got carers and we cannot force her to eat food"
they say she has full capacity to make her own choices and she knows what choice she is making ,
surely social adult care sevices have to do something , the one senior care social worker said to the carers I am telling the nurses not to feed her or anyone feed her , then she will call the carers for them to go in her home and make food , im devastated she is being treated as an animal ,
I really don't know what to do , I cant go round and visit her when she is so so abusive to me and everyone else , im in limbo here I don't know what to do , I just feel adult Solihull social services cant wait till my mom dies and shes off there hands as they don't do a thing for her . if anyone has any answers for me id appreciate it , im so scared and worried ,