1. suptowngirl

    suptowngirl Registered User

    Sep 19, 2005
    39
    Staffordshire
    #1 suptowngirl, Nov 1, 2007
    Last edited: Nov 1, 2007
    Hi to all who have read my posts about my moms long suffering,

    She went to sleep and finally ended her suffering at 6.15 pm last night.

    Mom went into hospital 2 weeks ago with septicemia ( caused by the pressure sore ) and she developed Pneumonia too. The doctors said she wouldn't last 48 hours but she wouldn't let go and suffered even more pain.
    My sister and myself spent the last 5 nights at the hospital over night and my brothers took over during the day.

    We asked the hospital Chaplain to go to her bedside yesterday and he held a small private service and prayed for her.

    I had a call to get back as she was deteriorating and at the end the room was full with love, 16 members of our family, her children and grandchildren all there because of the love we felt for her.

    We were holding her as she opened her eyes and looked at us as she took her last breath.

    It's still so painful even though it was expected.
    She is now with my dad and he has taken over now.
    We know she is free of pain and suffering and dad will again look after her.
    God Bless All of you who are going through this.

    Suptowngirl
     
  2. nickyd

    nickyd Registered User

    Oct 20, 2007
    146
    warwickshire
    Dear, Suptowngirl
    Sending you my heartfelt condolences. You will be in shock for sometime, even though you knew the outcome, it is still hard to believe, I know..
    Your Mum is at peace now, from this cruel illness, you know that. Now take one day at a time and look after yourself. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, Take very good care of yourself, Love, Nicky xxx
     
  3. Kayla

    Kayla Registered User

    May 14, 2006
    621
    Kent
    I am sorry to hear of your Mum's passing, but as you say she is now at peace and no longer suffering. It was good that so many of your family were with her at the end and that must have been a great comfort to her.
    My Mum died before we could get to the hospital, but she was not alone and it was all very sudden.
    I don't think we can ever get over losing a loved one, but in time we remember more of the good things, rather than the pain at the end.
    My Mum died in May and we are scattering her ashes in the Church Garden on Sunday. We've also got a bench with a plaque in her memory.
    Thinking of you at this sad time,

    Kayla
     
  4. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    69,401
    Kent
    Dear suptowngirl.
    Please accept my deepest sympathy and sincere condolences on the death of your mother.
    I`m so sorry she had to suffer such pain during her final days and hope you find some consolation in knowing she is at peace now.
    Love xx
     
  5. Canadian Joanne

    Canadian Joanne Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 8, 2005
    16,093
    Toronto, Canada
    Dear suptowngirl,
    My sincere sympathy. Your post was beautiful and brought tears to my eyes. I am so glad your mother was surrounded by her family and love.
     
  6. Skye

    Skye Registered User

    Aug 29, 2006
    17,000
    SW Scotland
    Dear Suptowngirl

    Thank you for your beautiful post, it was so moving.

    Your mum is at peace no, with your dad, and it was lovely that all the family was there for her. I'm sure she felt the love that surrounded her.

    You will grieve for a long time to come, please be good to yourself, and post here whenever yo want to.

    Love and hugs,
     
  7. connie

    connie Registered User

    Mar 7, 2004
    9,519
    Frinton-on-Sea
    Deepest condolences.

    I am so glad that you had the time to gather so many family around. It will always be a comfort to you all.
     
  8. Laylabud

    Laylabud Registered User

    Sep 7, 2007
    111
    Kent
    Dear Suptowngirl


    I am so sorry to hear of your Mum's passing, although it is expected with this cruel illness it is still a great shock. You have peace of mind now and know she is no longer in suffering and is happy to be back with your Dad, although a little sad prehaps that she have left you all behind.

    Take care of yourself


    Best wishes

    Laylabud
     
  9. Linda Mc

    Linda Mc Registered User

    Jul 3, 2005
    1,881
    Nr Mold
    So very sorry for your loss but now your mum is at peace.

    Love and hugs take care of yourself.

    Linda x
     
  10. elaineo2

    elaineo2 Registered User

    Jul 6, 2007
    945
    leigh lancashire
    Love and sympathy to you all.She had a beautiful passing,having such a loving family with her.God bless you all.love elainex
     
  11. clarethebear

    clarethebear Registered User

    Oct 16, 2007
    197
    manchester, uk
    I'm so sorry to hear of your mum's passing. As you say your mum is in no more pain now and I'm sure your dad will be there to meet her and give her a big hug. It was nice so many of your family where there and that love filled the air as she passed.

    (((HUGS))) to you all.

    Take Care
    Clare:)
     
  12. christine_batch

    christine_batch Registered User

    Jul 31, 2007
    3,388
    Buckinghamshire
    Another one with the Angels.

    Dear Suptowngirl,
    I am so sorry at your loss. At last she is no longer suffering and at peace and with you Dad. Praying for support for your and you family at this very hard time.
    God Bless. Christine
     
  13. Michele

    Michele Registered User

    Oct 6, 2007
    1,224
    Dear Suptowngirl,

    My sincere sympathy is sent to you and your family, with lots of love and hugs too.

    Take care.

    Michele xx
     
  14. BeckyJan

    BeckyJan Registered User

    Nov 28, 2005
    18,972
    Derbyshire
    My deepest sympathy in the loss of your Mum. You have done so much for her and it was wonderful that she was surrounded by a truly loving family.

    In your grieving I hope you find some consolation in knowing that now she is at peace with your Dad.

    Take care Beckyjan
     
  15. Taffy

    Taffy Registered User

    Apr 15, 2007
    1,314
    Dear suptowngirl,

    I am sorry to hear of your mum's passing and hope that you can draw some comfort knowing she is at peace. Deepest Sympathy. Taffy.
     
  16. Margaret W

    Margaret W Registered User

    Apr 28, 2007
    3,725
    North Derbyshire
    Dear Suptowngirl

    So glad you were all able to be there at your mum's passing. We missed my dad's, the hospice rang at 10 a.m. to say he was shouting for my mum, but no panic. We were planning to visit at 2 p.m. I had a notion that it wasn't right, so went to collect mum at 10.15. We got the call to say he had passed away at 10.10 before we had even set off from mum's. I regret very much that I wasn't there to hold his hand.

    At least your mum is now at peace. You did all you could.

    Much love

    Margaret
     
  17. maria29al

    maria29al Registered User

    Mar 15, 2006
    426
    Warwickshire
    Thinking of you at this sad time.

    Take care.
    Hugs
    M
    xxxx
     
  18. 117katie

    117katie Guest

    Dear suptowngirl!

    Like many others who read your posting, I too cried. My heart is with you, and with your family, as we know how you all are feeling at this time. I was moved by the fact that you had been able to gather so many of your family together to share those precious final moments. Your strength will come from each other.

    Take care, and thanks for the posting.

    Katie
     
  19. Nell

    Nell Registered User

    Aug 9, 2005
    1,170
    Australia
    My deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your mother. I was so glad to read that she was surrounded by her loving family - what a blessing. Please take time now for yourself. The pain and grief are hard to bear, but hopefully will be made easier by knowing she is now free of pain.
    Thinking of you with caring thoughts.
     
  20. nemesisis

    nemesisis Registered User

    May 25, 2006
    100
    my sincere condolences to you and all your family for your loss
    bless you all
    from reading you post it seems that your mum was with people who loved her
    and I am sure she would want you to remember all the happy times you all had together
    xx
     

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