The last few weeks have made me think the end is near for mom.
She doesn’t want to leave bed, she refuses to eat more often than not, same with drinks and same with her tablets.
She is aggressive if woken up and her mobility is disappearing fast.
I’ve already discussed w her gp and care Home about not wanting to extend her life longer than it needs to. I know she would have hated seeing herself this far gone all skin and bone, so this is the only thing I see as being fair to her.
If she refuses food, is that how she will go? I was very much going thru all this in my head in a matter of fact way but today it’s hit me that even though I know mom will more than likely die this year, I’m not ready.
She doesn’t want to leave bed, she refuses to eat more often than not, same with drinks and same with her tablets.
She is aggressive if woken up and her mobility is disappearing fast.
I’ve already discussed w her gp and care Home about not wanting to extend her life longer than it needs to. I know she would have hated seeing herself this far gone all skin and bone, so this is the only thing I see as being fair to her.
If she refuses food, is that how she will go? I was very much going thru all this in my head in a matter of fact way but today it’s hit me that even though I know mom will more than likely die this year, I’m not ready.