Hello to everyone out there who is looking after or has looked after their father like me. Dad died this february 17th. He had alzheimer's. My husband and myself looked after him in our home, my husband did all his personal care, washing etc. we had no other form of help. I found a photo on my camera whilst downloading onto computer and suddenly there was a beautiful photo of Dad and I cannot stop crying. If my siblings had only been there for us instead of taking us to court I could share my feelings and this photo with them but they don't want to know me. I have tried to talk to them but to no avail. Everything has hit me now and I don't know how to cope. My husband is so good and cared so much for my father. I expect all this is common but I am hurting.