Hi there me again, I am still having great problems with MIL, one minute she wants to come and live with us and then the next moment she does not. We are a little worried because the other day the social services had arranged for meals on wheels to arrive and when she did my MIL grabbed her by the ears and said she had already eaten a banquet. She is beginning to get rather agressive and we are worried what she is going to do next. They are supposed to be sending someone to help with her washing and cleaning, but I really do not know what is going to happen there. At the moment we are letting her make the decision to live with us or not, but we are afraid that this decision will be taken out of our hands, and we also would like her to live with us whilst she is still a little aware, although not much, but she still knows her son but keeps forgetting me. Should we just leave things as they are or make the decision ourselves and then try to persaude her by giving her all the positives and how she will not be lonely. Any suggestions? Honestly I am getting more confused by the minute, but I am so grateful for be able to talk to people who know what we are going through and can perhaps guide us in the right direction. Thanks once again for listening.