Actually MIL has had a stroke and incapable of looking after herself and originally assessed as needing CHC. That was 3 years ago. I am deputy but do not have welfare just financial. The first reassessment is due soon and we have had a meeting to which I was invited but it seemed to be a preliminary one so MIL may be marginal for LA care instead of NHS. As I am going to the meeting as an observer I was wondering how to prepare but suspect I am not invited to give a view as the discussion will be between the NHS arguing for LA care and the LA for NHS CHC. Any view or advice welcome. PS if anyone knows of a forum(s) which is as useful as this one but related directly to someone incapacitated by a stroke be interested to know of it. many thanks.