Hi can someone tell me how to deal with mum, she gets up in the early hours all dressed and thinks she is going out, dad shouts at her and i understand why but it breaks my heart, he is 76 and i worry it will all take ots toil, she goes back to bed but dad is tired, how do we deal with this? I live thirty miles away and she doesnt speak on the phone anymore and has started forgetting my name, hiw can i help dad if she forgets me?