My father was diagnosed with alzheimer,s about two years ago. I could not accept this as my father had been hen-pecked by my mother all my life. I assumed he had just given in and switched off. My mother is now under a terrible strain and she does not cope well with his illness, she has no patience and continually berates him for his forgetfulness.
my father was an accountant so he spends most of his time counting his money and complaining about other people stealing from him. now he thinks we want his money.
one of my biggest worries is he keeps threating suicide, his own father killed himself in the shed which is in his back garden and already we have had one incident in there, he has also began to get violent towards my mother. one day a week he goes to a day centre to give my mum a rest but he is treatening to give that up as they have recently been re-assested and told they will have to pay now and that is one thing my father hates , is spending money.
the worry of my parents and what will happen to them is causing great stress as there seems to be no help. i was told that if your parents have over £20.000 in the bank they do not qualfy for any assistance, we are beging to feel more and more isolated.
We are four daughters, my father has closed the purse stings and will not let us manage his finances and secure our mothers future. Now we fear that both our parents are going to lose there income once my father deterioates into the abyess
my father was an accountant so he spends most of his time counting his money and complaining about other people stealing from him. now he thinks we want his money.
one of my biggest worries is he keeps threating suicide, his own father killed himself in the shed which is in his back garden and already we have had one incident in there, he has also began to get violent towards my mother. one day a week he goes to a day centre to give my mum a rest but he is treatening to give that up as they have recently been re-assested and told they will have to pay now and that is one thing my father hates , is spending money.
the worry of my parents and what will happen to them is causing great stress as there seems to be no help. i was told that if your parents have over £20.000 in the bank they do not qualfy for any assistance, we are beging to feel more and more isolated.
We are four daughters, my father has closed the purse stings and will not let us manage his finances and secure our mothers future. Now we fear that both our parents are going to lose there income once my father deterioates into the abyess