Please can someone help me, i care for my 84 year old mother with dementia and there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for her. We both own the house we live in but last weekend I discovered that my 6ft 2in 51 year old single brother who also lives with us has been mentally abusing my mother! He often mentally abuses myself and once physically hurt me but I thought if I took his bullying he wouldn’t bother my mother, then I returned home from a shopping trip to find my mum in a awful state and took her straight to the hospital where mum told doctors everything! I feel such a failure I should have seen what he was like but I didn’t. He put on such a wonderful nice guy act no one would believe he was slowing killing my mother (or being nasty to me) now we are not allowed to return to our home for our own safety. We are to afraid to throw him out and if we got the police to do it for us we know he will return. And social services “can’t do much” Adult protection think that as we are safe lodging at a relatives home they don’t need to do anything for us. My mothers dementia is getting worse by the day and she wants to go home and my life has been turned upside down while he is living in our house..please please can someone tell me what I should do. This is sending me over the edge. Many thanks.