Update
Took mum to see the consultant. She told mum that she had dementia (which I didn't want as I knew it would freak her out). Mum then went silent for the rest of the appointment. Aricept prescribed. On the way home mum says that is the first time she has been told she has memory problems (not true) She was very tearful and I am wrung out. I do wish the word 'Dementia' hadn't been used' but I understand that the consultant had to be clear. I am hoping mum will have a good night and will have forgotten about the visit, tomorrow. Thanks for listening x
Took mum to see the consultant. She told mum that she had dementia (which I didn't want as I knew it would freak her out). Mum then went silent for the rest of the appointment. Aricept prescribed. On the way home mum says that is the first time she has been told she has memory problems (not true) She was very tearful and I am wrung out. I do wish the word 'Dementia' hadn't been used' but I understand that the consultant had to be clear. I am hoping mum will have a good night and will have forgotten about the visit, tomorrow. Thanks for listening x