So my sister replied to my email and apparently she had seen the headstone herself yesterday as had actually been into the cemetery. A strange coincidence really but there you go. Of course she has made a complaint about it should I really be surprised ? Sister says she thought the inscription for dad should have been brought down a line to 'Add definition to his passing' ? The stone mason started dads inscription on the next line below mums and she feels he should have left a line between them. I hadn't noticed myself but presume now this may have been done so that the space at the top above mums inscription and space below dads at the bottom would have been more equal. If the last line of dads inscription had been any lower when flowers are in the two pots at either side of the stone they would likely hide some of the last line which incidentally was the line I added 'A loving husband and dad' which she is not contributing towards. Sister claims she was not consulted over the inscription but that's not entirely true I approached her back in April last year and she didn't want to discuss. When I approached her again later in the year and sent her what the proposed inscription would be she made no comment regarding the inscription other than to complain about the cost in particular the fee for removal and return and totally refused to pay what they wanted for that part of the estimate. I didn't go back to her about the extra line because I knew she was unlikely to contribute more than she had stated she was willing to pay. My sister is in a position to pay so I know its not really about money. At the end of the day it was pretty obvious that dad needed his name and dates on the stone and because my mums inscription had wife, mum, nan, great nan etc which she wanted at the time there wasn't a lot of room left for dads. My partner says he thinks the stone is lovely he said he personally thinks is nicest in the cemetery, it certainly is the freshest at the moment as the words were all bright and stone has obviously been polished again. I think the stone mason has done the best he could with the space available and its very wrong of her to insult his work its a family business that has been around for years so they know how to set their work. Sister has insisted she see the final invoice so I photographed and emailed this morning despite the fact the invoice was the same as she saw before other than the line I am sorting myself. I'm absolutely done with her now just hoping she settles her side of the invoice but if she doesn't then so be it. I sent my daughter and son photos and they both thought headstone with dads inscription added was very nice, that's good enough for me and whatever my sister thought about how it was set out none of us had even noticed.