hello every one we just back from a memorial service at the local church for all those that have lost a loved one in the past 12 months ! its nearly a year since i lost my mam still feels like yesterday at times ! But the service was lovely we all lit a candle for our loved ones ! i still feel like iv not grieved properly yet not had time if that makes sense as MIL been diagnosed with dementia this year as well she spent 5 months in hospital 2 months in intensive care as well ,any way enough of me keep warm and safe thinking of you all x