I think some people find the answers they need by just reading other peoples posts.do they just decide to carry on regardless
I do suspect that death will bring about a gradual diminishment. This is only natural and we should expect it. People need to move one.
I once knew a man who attended my AD support group for over a year after his wife died. He had to stop coming, as his attendance was actually preventing him from moving on emotionally
http://www.alzheimers.org.uk/talkingpoint/site/scripts/documents_info.php?categoryID=4&documentID=18I had forgotten that you need to register to read posts