I'm so sorry to hear that Peter. Have you talked to your GP? He/she might be able to advise. I also wondered if you have had any respite/time to yourself. I don't know how easy that would be in your area but I think everyone needs a break from caring if it's at all possible.
Yes our social worker suggests Respite however my mother was in hospital for a week a year ago and caused bedlam for the staff for some reason seems to need me and me alone to be anyway content. So I fear what respite would do to her without me there to remind her who and where she is.
Thank u for your reply and concern.
My GP is not one for prescribing, he tends to answer with it doesn't work anyway but true. Hes probably right.
Yes our social worker suggests Respite however my mother was in hospital for a week a year ago and caused bedlam for the staff for some reason seems to need me and me alone to be anyway content. So I fear what respite would do to her without me there to remind her who and where she is.
Thank u for your reply and concern.
Has any Carer been recommended any medication in order to continue caring.
Please inform as I'm so tired and worn out.
Hi Peter,
Being exhausted is dreadful. I know all about it. I can only suggest it may be possible for you to get a few hours day care. Talk to the public health nurse and see what he/she suggests. Or do what I did and visit any public care facility in your area and ask questions.
Aisling ( Ireland)