Maybe this is it.

[Amy in the US]

Slugsta, my condolences.

You have been in our thoughts often over the past few weeks.

Such a long vigil, I cannot imagine. I am thankful your mum is beyond suffering now.

Sending love and (((((hugs))))) your way.

 

[brambles]

So sorry slugsta, My condolences to you and your family. x

 

[Cat27]

I’m so sorry. My thoughts are with you.

 

[Grannie G]

My sincere condolences @Slugsta. You had a long vigil. Im glad your mum is at peace now.

 

[Slugsta]

I am sorry I dropped out of contact. The mobile phone and internet signals were very poor over at the carehome so I didn't take my comp with me.

I started staying overnight and coming home for a few hours during the day just over 2 weeks ago. Thinking each day that it couldn't be long now, I stopped coming home on 5th November. It seemed impossible that um lasted through each night, although deeply unconscious.

This morning I sent out my usual 'Still here' texts, had some breakfast and dozed off. Woke up to find she had slipped away. I know I would have heard any noise or distress, her heart simply gave up the fight after all this time.

Like many of us here, my relationship with Mum was often difficult so I anticipate some very mixed feelings to come. One thing I know is that I have nothing with which to reproach myself regarding her end of life.

 

[Amy in the US]

Slugsta, please, no need to apologize to us. We knew you were busy and I also thought connectivity might be an issue.

You must be exhausted.

I hope that the GM and its cousin, self reproach, find no room in your head and heart; they've got no business showing up and we will gladly show them the door.

 

[lemonjuice]

Like many of us here, my relationship with Mum was often difficult so I anticipate some very mixed feelings to come. One thing I know is that I have nothing with which to reproach myself regarding her end of life.

That is a really positive approach to have and one I trust will sustain you through the coming months, as it has for me.

 

[RedLou]

Just sending love, Slugsta. Take care. x

 

[Spamar]

Just caught up.
My many, many condolences, Slugsta.
It’s been quite a vigil for you, time for some rest!
I would prefer to cuddle OH and see the cat! But suit yourself!

 

[HillyBilly]

Big sigh, big hug @Slugsta x

 

[Chemmy]

Such a long and difficult time for you both. Take care.

 

[Murper1]

I hope the days and years ahead are kind to you now. You have been amazing. I went through this 6 months ago and yet the time I spent caring for my Mum will is still incredibly strong in my mind. Be good to yourself now!

 

[LadyA]

My condolences, Slugsta. You have had a hard vigil. You couldn't have done more. xx

 

[DollyBird16]

Bless you, a really hard and tiring time for you. Thinking of you. Take care. x

 

[Dazmum]

I’m so sorry, @Slugsta, no one could have done more. I’m thinking of you x

 

[Margi29]

So sorry for your loss, your mum at peace and knowing you have done your best, just to say sending much love and hugs x

 

[Scouts girl]

My thoughts are with you slugstar. May you now find peace and rest after your long vigil with your mum and be so reassured that you did all you could for her. Love and best wishes xxx

 

[Rosnpton]

Sorry to read that your mum has now passed. You must be exhausted from your constant vigil . You need some time to yourself to jsut sleep and rest.
Ros x

 

[notsogooddtr]

Mum's and daughters-it can be such a complex relationship.You cared for her so well and for so long.Time for you now.Take care.

 

[Glofaxi]

Thought about you and your mum every day. RIP to your mum and LIP (live in peace) to you. Hugs.