My father has dementia. Physically fine but very stubborn. Very aggressive at any mention of personal care. Just wondered if anyone had any advice.
We accept he won't shower so understand a quick wipe down would work. Even to wash his face. But flatly refuse or we get aggression. Can't get him shaved. Refuses to take his teeth out or clean his teeth.
We have carers who come to help with personal care but they say they can't force him to do anything.
Has been a few months now. We have a doctor's team visiting next week to assess dad again.
Does anyone have any advice? I feel like knocking him out with tranquilizers so at least we can give him a wipe down.
We accept he won't shower so understand a quick wipe down would work. Even to wash his face. But flatly refuse or we get aggression. Can't get him shaved. Refuses to take his teeth out or clean his teeth.
We have carers who come to help with personal care but they say they can't force him to do anything.
Has been a few months now. We have a doctor's team visiting next week to assess dad again.
Does anyone have any advice? I feel like knocking him out with tranquilizers so at least we can give him a wipe down.