My dilemma is this. My husband (age 59 and 5 years into EOA) have sold the family home: we currently live in tied accommodation with my employment. He understood this and was in agreement, to help our daughter on the property ladder and to buy something for us- a small flat, that I can easily manage in retirement which hopefully isn’t for some time yet. But now every time I mention this he is angry and on Saturday I took him to see one and he was completely irrational, very unpleasant and threw all sorts of spurious reasons why he didn’t like it, when the real reason is its change and he wants things to remain as they are.
I cannot wait in case in case property goes up in price too much in the intervening period, but should I take the decision out of his hands and just buy something myself without his consent? It feels very disempowering but I cannot cope with such unpleasantness and upset. Advice please
I cannot wait in case in case property goes up in price too much in the intervening period, but should I take the decision out of his hands and just buy something myself without his consent? It feels very disempowering but I cannot cope with such unpleasantness and upset. Advice please