I don't really belong in this thread(?) because my oh doesn't have a diagnosis, but he is deteriorating and his behaviour is challenging and un-cooperative and I loose it mega bigtime sometimes. so I hope you won't mind me sharing my guilt here. oh has got bronchitis at the moment and is on antibiotics, are these making things worse? I don't know. I've got the bug and feel rough too. but that's my fault. you ask him. yes I am feeling sorry for myself. i'll get over it when I feel better I suppose. phew. that's better.