Hi
I have both LPOA for both parents. One parent is now in a home and I feel the LPOA is kicking in for them. The other in sheltered accommodation and still able to function, although there are memory issues. I don't feel the LPOA has kicked in with them.
I have been emailed a long list of orders from them (my siblings) that I have been told to carry out. I have been told to do this and that to my face. I feel I am being bullied and feel intimidated. They have made myself and my family stressed, anxious, made to feel like liars and thieves. They have ordered me to do things that I know my parent (the one with the LPOA that has kicked in) does not want me to do, because I have asked. They want me to send them financial documents, which I believe would be breaking the Data Protection Act.
I know they are family, but I don't believe they have the right to do this.
My question is: What are my duties towards my other family members?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
I have both LPOA for both parents. One parent is now in a home and I feel the LPOA is kicking in for them. The other in sheltered accommodation and still able to function, although there are memory issues. I don't feel the LPOA has kicked in with them.
I have been emailed a long list of orders from them (my siblings) that I have been told to carry out. I have been told to do this and that to my face. I feel I am being bullied and feel intimidated. They have made myself and my family stressed, anxious, made to feel like liars and thieves. They have ordered me to do things that I know my parent (the one with the LPOA that has kicked in) does not want me to do, because I have asked. They want me to send them financial documents, which I believe would be breaking the Data Protection Act.
I know they are family, but I don't believe they have the right to do this.
My question is: What are my duties towards my other family members?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.