Mums COP deputy pays my Mums AA into my account to use as living expenses towards my increased household bills as Mum lives with me. The previous deputy did the same. Mums pension is also paid into my account for the things I need to buy for her personally such as pads/weekly hair appointments/clothing/toiletries. I keep all the receipts and staple them onto a weekly sheet, scan them and email them to the deputy with a full itemised list every week. Having said that, AA and pension in the first place goes into one of the accounts the deputy holds for Mum, then its transferred to my account each monday. Without being paid the AA I could not manage to keep Mum here with me providing 24/7 care, having given up work 4 years ago when she moved in with me, to live on just carers allowance. As long as you keep receipts and full accounting for what you're doing just incase anybody does query things, I see no problem using that money. I do not have to provide details back as to how the AA is spent as that is for me to use towards bills. Its only Mums pension I have to provide details of how it is spent.