I will never get used to this
My husband has been in care now since November 2015, at the time I was very unsure it was the right step and I have felt almost every day since the same uncertainty.
I think his dementia has become much worse than it would have been if he was still in his home environment mixing with more people who don't have dementia.
He has settled down but I can't look at him without feeling that the whole situation is wrong. I should have persevered with him longer , there is always the guilt that I've let him down badly.
It's like a nightmare. I just want it to end and wake up in a world where we are together again.
My husband has been in care now since November 2015, at the time I was very unsure it was the right step and I have felt almost every day since the same uncertainty.
I think his dementia has become much worse than it would have been if he was still in his home environment mixing with more people who don't have dementia.
He has settled down but I can't look at him without feeling that the whole situation is wrong. I should have persevered with him longer , there is always the guilt that I've let him down badly.
It's like a nightmare. I just want it to end and wake up in a world where we are together again.