1. Lirene

    Lirene Registered User

    Sep 15, 2019
    103
    My husband is currently in hospital and how desperate I have become after going every day and him constantly hating me. Saying the most awful terrible things to me and then giving the nurses chocolate ! I am at a total loss to understand how love can so suddenly turn into this absolute hatred for the person nearest and dearest to you. I feel so so sad that the person who I have loved most of my life is hating me so much. A world of love and hugs go out to everyone who is dealing with this terrible pain in their hearts as I am xx
     
  2. nae sporran

    nae sporran Volunteer Host

    Oct 29, 2014
    5,991
    Male
    Bristol
    So sorry your husband is lashing out at you in his pain and confusion, Lirene. It is hard enough to see someone you love in hospital.
     
  3. Lirene

    Lirene Registered User

    Sep 15, 2019
    103
    Thank you xx
     
  4. lis66

    lis66 Registered User

    Aug 7, 2015
    272
    Sending (((((((hugs))))) to you Lorene xxxx
     
  5. Bikerbeth

    Bikerbeth Registered User

    Feb 11, 2019
    375
    Bedford
    So sorry to hear what you are going through
     
  6. Fishgirl

    Fishgirl Registered User

    Sep 9, 2019
    101
    Hi Lirene,
    This really is the cruelest disease, the knives in our hearts are many, but this goes the deepest, we give all the love we have and still find more when needed, we take everything it throws at us and still come back for more because we love them! I know everyone says it’s still in them somewhere, and I’m sure it must be, like you say, how can all those years of love be wiped out! But it would make this journey so much easier if they could just show that it’s still there. We had our ups and downs like anyone,but I always knew the love was there, now I’m not so sure!:( We’ll carry on like we always do and live in hope.
    Stay strong, love Sue xxx
     
  7. Lirene

    Lirene Registered User

    Sep 15, 2019
    103
    As you all know, once the door is shut there is no one there, we have are our own thoughts racing around and the constant ache in our hearts. This forum is a life saver for us - no matter how bad things are there is always someone worse and here everyone understands what each of us is going through. Thanks to everyone for their kindness, my prayers and thoughts are for all xx
     

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