My Brave and precious Mother is gently slipping away from us and I just can't imagine the world without her in it. Her name is Silvia, 82 years old and about 7 years with Alzheimers. We still have her at home and she's going nowhere. We have a team of 7 carers, mostly family, a care team that comes in 3 times a day, the relief when they came was so enormous its beyond explanation. The financial cost is staggering but its only money. She is safe, warm and surrounded by love and she deserves no less. No care homes and hospitals for Silvia, she would not want it because I know her so well. Now we are lucky to be able to be with her and look into her face and reassure her and tell her how loved she is. Its priceless and its been the most traumatic 6 years, but its also a privilege and I have not a single regret. My heart is breaking and I can't stop the tears, I dont care if I cry in The Co-op or the local shop, I cry in the car, in the bath and into my pillow at night. My Father died when I was 3 so Mum is all we had, no family just Silvia and her 4 kids, I'm 54 now so is it normal to feel like Im going to be an orphan? Sorry to be so sad but I am sad, I know it will get easier but right now its so sad.