My father has Wernickes Korsokoff's encepathology. Essentially, he appears coherent and is able to maintain conversation rather well, however his short term memory is affected and he is unable to create new memories. He will often make up (confabulate) memories to fill the gaps that he has missing.
I haven't been overly impressed with the care home that dad is in but I was rather limited as to who would have him as he in only 55 and apparently his age has made him difficult to 'place'
Dad is happy where he is and is more settled than i have seen him in a long time so i don't really want to move him but a few issues have arisen in past months.
1) Dad appears unkempt when i visit. He isn't washing regularly and is often wearing the same clothes as previous visits
2) The staff have told me he is not eating meals regularly and will often complain to me that his meals are cold or not enough- whether this is true or not I don't know because they appear hot when i visit at meal times?? There is also an issue with tuck shop which probably doesn't help- mentioned below...
3) He is spending a lot of his personal allowance on their tuck shop (£80 this month and £60 last month).
4) His clothes are hidden under the chair in his room and he refuses to wear new clothes i have taken in and insists they are not his- even when i sew the names in.
I have spoken to the care home about these issues and they have said at the moment he still has capacity (at times) so they cannot help any further. They have said that they can't force him to wash or eat but can encourage him- which they say they have tried to no avail.
They have said the next step is a DOLS statement which will take away his liberties but they don't feel this will make any difference at this stage.
I don't really know what the care home are supposed to do in this situation but i do not feel his quality of life is as good as it should be. Dad's condition doesn't help.
I would appreciate any guidance. Sorry for the essay but i felt it important you all had the facts.
Regards
A Worried Daughter
I haven't been overly impressed with the care home that dad is in but I was rather limited as to who would have him as he in only 55 and apparently his age has made him difficult to 'place'
Dad is happy where he is and is more settled than i have seen him in a long time so i don't really want to move him but a few issues have arisen in past months.
1) Dad appears unkempt when i visit. He isn't washing regularly and is often wearing the same clothes as previous visits
2) The staff have told me he is not eating meals regularly and will often complain to me that his meals are cold or not enough- whether this is true or not I don't know because they appear hot when i visit at meal times?? There is also an issue with tuck shop which probably doesn't help- mentioned below...
3) He is spending a lot of his personal allowance on their tuck shop (£80 this month and £60 last month).
4) His clothes are hidden under the chair in his room and he refuses to wear new clothes i have taken in and insists they are not his- even when i sew the names in.
I have spoken to the care home about these issues and they have said at the moment he still has capacity (at times) so they cannot help any further. They have said that they can't force him to wash or eat but can encourage him- which they say they have tried to no avail.
They have said the next step is a DOLS statement which will take away his liberties but they don't feel this will make any difference at this stage.
I don't really know what the care home are supposed to do in this situation but i do not feel his quality of life is as good as it should be. Dad's condition doesn't help.
I would appreciate any guidance. Sorry for the essay but i felt it important you all had the facts.
Regards
A Worried Daughter