Hi All,
My Dad has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's for nearly 6 years now, and has been cared for at home by my mother with support from the rest of the family. He has now reached a stage where he is now very docile and spends all his time just sitting in his chair. He has been in hospital for a few weeks after a small stroke, and we are now looking for a residential home for him as he is now needing too much care for my elderly and disabled mother to manage.
We feel that he doesn't really need specialist alzheimer's care as he is now so docile and immobile. He just really needs feeding, cleaning etc type of care and as I say doesn't wander or get aggressive or anything. But we have just been told that an ordinary residential home isn't allowed to take him, simply because he has the diagnosis of Alzheimer's. Apparently he must go into a home that has been designated as an Alzheimer's care home. This severely limits our choices of homes as there is only one or maybe two in the area. The nursing staff at the hospital think he would be better in an ordinary residential home as he responds very well to other patients on his ward taking an interest in him.
It seems to me that the system is looking at him first and foremost as an Alzheimer's patient rather than a patient in his own right with his own particular set of needs.
Has anyone got any suggestions of what we can do about this or any other advice on finding a good home for him?
Thanks
Jxxx
My Dad has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's for nearly 6 years now, and has been cared for at home by my mother with support from the rest of the family. He has now reached a stage where he is now very docile and spends all his time just sitting in his chair. He has been in hospital for a few weeks after a small stroke, and we are now looking for a residential home for him as he is now needing too much care for my elderly and disabled mother to manage.
We feel that he doesn't really need specialist alzheimer's care as he is now so docile and immobile. He just really needs feeding, cleaning etc type of care and as I say doesn't wander or get aggressive or anything. But we have just been told that an ordinary residential home isn't allowed to take him, simply because he has the diagnosis of Alzheimer's. Apparently he must go into a home that has been designated as an Alzheimer's care home. This severely limits our choices of homes as there is only one or maybe two in the area. The nursing staff at the hospital think he would be better in an ordinary residential home as he responds very well to other patients on his ward taking an interest in him.
It seems to me that the system is looking at him first and foremost as an Alzheimer's patient rather than a patient in his own right with his own particular set of needs.
Has anyone got any suggestions of what we can do about this or any other advice on finding a good home for him?
Thanks
Jxxx