I know exactly where you are coming from Beverley. My brother is just the same. He does nothing at all except call in for a quick 10 min visit to his Dad once a week,. No shopping, paperwork, appointments. cleaning up, etc etc. One job I thought he might do as a trained mechanic was to sort his fathers car once he had had his letter from DVLA. I asked him to get a fault fixed & then sell it. Well he didn't know any Honda mechanics, he didn't think January was a good time to sell a car, he didn't know....... My partner & I did it ourselves just like everything else. Makes you mad though doesn't it Beverley?