So my brother and I are the only people caring for our 79 yr old father who has 'established' alzheimers. Not sure what that means but day to day is becoming a challenge as we worry more and more about dad.
Fiercely independent, we shield him and him protect from so much. But despite my visiting every other day and countless phone calls and my brother driving down after a long days work to be with him every weekend - we are drowning.
Which care team do we speak to? memory clinic has signed his care back to our GP which means sod all, geriatric care is in name only. No one is checking up on him. His development in the condition.... Difficult topics like continence and hygiene are starting to emerge.
What do I do. I want to be more of a daughter and less of a carer. Dad really only trusts us and we need to maintain his pride for as long as we can.
It's draining
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Fiercely independent, we shield him and him protect from so much. But despite my visiting every other day and countless phone calls and my brother driving down after a long days work to be with him every weekend - we are drowning.
Which care team do we speak to? memory clinic has signed his care back to our GP which means sod all, geriatric care is in name only. No one is checking up on him. His development in the condition.... Difficult topics like continence and hygiene are starting to emerge.
What do I do. I want to be more of a daughter and less of a carer. Dad really only trusts us and we need to maintain his pride for as long as we can.
It's draining
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