O/H was diagnosed 4 years ago with alzheimers and since that dreaded day things have slowly deteriorated. We always knew they would so that comes as know surprise. From being a provider both financially and physically he is now reliant on me to make all the decisions I cook, clean and do the diy, work part time and make all the financial decisions. I can cope with all that. However I had to stop my little boy from progressing in his gym class as it is consuming to much of our time, time that he wants to spend with his dad at home, time that we don't know how much of we have, time that no one can bring back. The worse thing is although our son is only 7 his life and his ambitions are having to take a back seat because we don't know what tomorrow will bring. Our son started gymnastics at 5 years old. From training one hour a week he is now on 8 hours a week which is being increased to 10 hours. Little one wants to go gym but at the same time he doesn't want to be away from dad. Decision has been made to go back to 6 hours. How do you go forward when you cannot advance without sacrificing the time that you don't know how much of you have.................