Hello
I was wondering if anyone had experiences of writing a 'letter of wishes'? What should you include? The letter is a 'beyond the grave' (the solicitor's description) message from my dad (the carer) to his trustees (me and my brothers) as guidance for how we look after mum if he pre-deceases her.
We all already approach mum's Alzeimers in different ways -varying from sticking your head in the sand and ignoring it, not really believing it as an illness and wanting to support in every way possible. My dad is amazing with her but if he does die first he needs to know that she will be cared for in the way he would like. She is still at home now so we don't know what comes next.
thanks
I was wondering if anyone had experiences of writing a 'letter of wishes'? What should you include? The letter is a 'beyond the grave' (the solicitor's description) message from my dad (the carer) to his trustees (me and my brothers) as guidance for how we look after mum if he pre-deceases her.
We all already approach mum's Alzeimers in different ways -varying from sticking your head in the sand and ignoring it, not really believing it as an illness and wanting to support in every way possible. My dad is amazing with her but if he does die first he needs to know that she will be cared for in the way he would like. She is still at home now so we don't know what comes next.
thanks