Ditto, once again I say I am sorry for what has gone here. I think that as an AD carer fine lines seem to be blurred. Not trying to step on any toes here....I think that in a society where proper ettiquette has the family caring for the patient, it is almost incomprehensible to understand that someone else may be doing it for another instead of that persons family. I hope I said that right.
I think we as careres should also realize that treatments vary in each country. I would hope that people would try to consider that. Just as there is a thread right now talking of a new medication in the US...there is a difference in way AD patients are treated. I understand where your doctor may be coming from.
I would be willing to bet that even tho she has great confidence in you her subconscience wants more people to acknowledge her. Probably her family, maybe friends she long remembers but are long gone. When an item becomes a nuisance it has to be handled. As an a US citizen I would assume that she has always had the capability to pick up a phone and get instant gratification. (We're that way here.) But by doing so she is causing problems elsewhere. I am most positive the dr. would not have recommended the phone being taken away had she not had a carer. He probably would have gone about it in a different way.
Ditto I commend you with staying with her, in these days and times it is so easy to leave an employer for being a jerk. Her family should be ashamed of themselves for ignoring her in these days, but them that is just the times. I, myself, am scared at the thought that I may have raised kids that will not care but to drop me off in someone elses custody. But then time will only tell.
Nancy
I think we as careres should also realize that treatments vary in each country. I would hope that people would try to consider that. Just as there is a thread right now talking of a new medication in the US...there is a difference in way AD patients are treated. I understand where your doctor may be coming from.
I would be willing to bet that even tho she has great confidence in you her subconscience wants more people to acknowledge her. Probably her family, maybe friends she long remembers but are long gone. When an item becomes a nuisance it has to be handled. As an a US citizen I would assume that she has always had the capability to pick up a phone and get instant gratification. (We're that way here.) But by doing so she is causing problems elsewhere. I am most positive the dr. would not have recommended the phone being taken away had she not had a carer. He probably would have gone about it in a different way.
Ditto I commend you with staying with her, in these days and times it is so easy to leave an employer for being a jerk. Her family should be ashamed of themselves for ignoring her in these days, but them that is just the times. I, myself, am scared at the thought that I may have raised kids that will not care but to drop me off in someone elses custody. But then time will only tell.
Nancy