At last someone has spoke and the sex issue.
I was already to sign off when I came upon the subject of sex. Wondering what direction is was going to take, I read what had been written. Good on you for sending it. I was at a Carers' Meeting one morning and being the second youngest there, one gentleman in his early 80's asked a gentleman in his 70's did he still have sex with his wife ? I looked across at the youngest one there and her face was a picture. The only thing that really I found very hard to accept was the 80 ish gentleman wife was just coming out of hospital that afternoon. She has to have daily care and moved by hoist. I was horrified but my imagination went to that saying. Lay there and think of England. On my personel life, being married to my husband for 16 years, 4 of which he has Alzheimers, the memoiries, missing his cuddles and kisses even just holding my hand I missed more. He was unable to call me by my name 16 months ago. As for you young man at 30, the worry and stress is with us all the time. I have terrible nightmares,even on sleeping tablets only get approximately 3-5 hours sleep.
You should put on some romantic music, have a intimate dinner, a dessert of strawberries and cream (so I am told) get into the relaxed state of mind. Saying all this, I hope you are going to keep us informed of your progress as quite a lot of people do experience this and Alzheimers do have a Fact Sheet on this. All else failing - go into imagination mode - perhaps it will work. Please keep us "GOLDEN OLDIES" informed because I think it is going to be interesting for us.
But I wish you good luck. Christine
I was already to sign off when I came upon the subject of sex. Wondering what direction is was going to take, I read what had been written. Good on you for sending it. I was at a Carers' Meeting one morning and being the second youngest there, one gentleman in his early 80's asked a gentleman in his 70's did he still have sex with his wife ? I looked across at the youngest one there and her face was a picture. The only thing that really I found very hard to accept was the 80 ish gentleman wife was just coming out of hospital that afternoon. She has to have daily care and moved by hoist. I was horrified but my imagination went to that saying. Lay there and think of England. On my personel life, being married to my husband for 16 years, 4 of which he has Alzheimers, the memoiries, missing his cuddles and kisses even just holding my hand I missed more. He was unable to call me by my name 16 months ago. As for you young man at 30, the worry and stress is with us all the time. I have terrible nightmares,even on sleeping tablets only get approximately 3-5 hours sleep.
You should put on some romantic music, have a intimate dinner, a dessert of strawberries and cream (so I am told) get into the relaxed state of mind. Saying all this, I hope you are going to keep us informed of your progress as quite a lot of people do experience this and Alzheimers do have a Fact Sheet on this. All else failing - go into imagination mode - perhaps it will work. Please keep us "GOLDEN OLDIES" informed because I think it is going to be interesting for us.
But I wish you good luck. Christine