Mum with moderate AD.
In the past 3 months, I have taken her medication box away completely, and go over morning and night with her tablets.
I have removed her weekly calendar, as she was constantly checking and rechecking what was happening that day, that week, she now only has a white board with very simple reminders.
I have started getting her smaller bank notes and coins, as she was getting confused about bigger notes and change.
Her latest is dates. Mum cannot remember the day/date and has lost concept of time... ( Today, tomorrow, next week, next month.
How do dates work, why does my phone say such and such a date.
Its to the point where she is obsessed with days and dates.
Dad says she is checking the phone during the night to see " what number it is", or up from 4-5am looking at the TV guide, calendar on the wall, or date on the phone.
She has a clock beside her bed with the time, day and date... It means nothing. I thought about a dementia clock, but its the phone chnaging the date every day that shes obsessed with.
I know some of you might say, change the phone, or take the calendar down, or take away the TV guide, but Dad is the sticking problem here. He would not adapt to a new phone either. Dad has MCI, and so very stubborn in adapting to anything for the benefit of Mum.
Mum has a hair appointment on Jan 9th, and has an appointment card.
I tried to remove her card, but no such luck. She is fixated on this date.
One day she asked me 14x in an hour about when will it be Jan 9th.
Its the first thing she asks me when she sees me, and the last think she asks me at night.
A few days ago, her sisters came to visit for the afternoon.
She asked me if this would interfere with her hair appointment on Jan 9th and would they be going home by then!
I cannot wait for this hair appointment, and I will be asking the hairdresser not to give her a card in future, and will tell her only on the day.
Very hard trying to keep a step ahead
In the past 3 months, I have taken her medication box away completely, and go over morning and night with her tablets.
I have removed her weekly calendar, as she was constantly checking and rechecking what was happening that day, that week, she now only has a white board with very simple reminders.
I have started getting her smaller bank notes and coins, as she was getting confused about bigger notes and change.
Her latest is dates. Mum cannot remember the day/date and has lost concept of time... ( Today, tomorrow, next week, next month.
How do dates work, why does my phone say such and such a date.
Its to the point where she is obsessed with days and dates.
Dad says she is checking the phone during the night to see " what number it is", or up from 4-5am looking at the TV guide, calendar on the wall, or date on the phone.
She has a clock beside her bed with the time, day and date... It means nothing. I thought about a dementia clock, but its the phone chnaging the date every day that shes obsessed with.
I know some of you might say, change the phone, or take the calendar down, or take away the TV guide, but Dad is the sticking problem here. He would not adapt to a new phone either. Dad has MCI, and so very stubborn in adapting to anything for the benefit of Mum.
Mum has a hair appointment on Jan 9th, and has an appointment card.
I tried to remove her card, but no such luck. She is fixated on this date.
One day she asked me 14x in an hour about when will it be Jan 9th.
Its the first thing she asks me when she sees me, and the last think she asks me at night.
A few days ago, her sisters came to visit for the afternoon.
She asked me if this would interfere with her hair appointment on Jan 9th and would they be going home by then!
I cannot wait for this hair appointment, and I will be asking the hairdresser not to give her a card in future, and will tell her only on the day.
Very hard trying to keep a step ahead
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