But what if the house you are buying is empty executor sale. There is nothing in the place i am moving to. The old lady lived alone and had dementia. She eventually died and the house clearance people were sent in. There are no carpets,heating or anything. I have bought the house because it will be perfect for me in every way, including looking to the future ,and if I could not drive I have a bus stop near, plus hospital and doctors walking distance. I will need a lot of the money to get the new place warm and comfortable. And I won't even start on the state of the garden.!! Surely I can get the new place habitable before I share any money left. Just as we would if he was here with me. x