Hi - my mum has recently been officially diagnosed with Alzheimer's and vascular dementia. Has anyone else experienced whereby I can be with mum and she is fine, leave her on her own say for 5 minutes and she is moaning and saying that she doesn't know what to do and constantly saying" oh dear oh dear." If you go and sit with her she then goes back quite often (not always) to being ok. Is this common or is a form of attention seeking do you think? Thanks everyone Jan