Hi everyone I am new to this forum. My mum has had memoriey loss and confusion for the last few years and unfortunately it is getting worse she lives with my Dad who is elderly and has some physical health issues himself Dad finds it difficult to cope with mum at times he becomes angry and frustrated with her and has said he does find it difficult to cope. I have put in place social services carers nurses but even with this support dad is saying he still cant cope. Recently I had mum for two weeks respite which Dad really found helpful however since being back home my Dad is complaining he still cannot cope. I have now taking the decision to leave my husband and help look after mum with Dad I had done this previously and it had worked out. I shall be using this forum has a support network and look forward to reading about tips and help looking after mum